Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.
So what are you going to do about it? About the problems you're facing. About the feelings you've been hiding or ignoring. About the call in your soul to live better and do better -- for yourself and for those you love.
I've helped many men like yourself and I will be glad to hear from you. Let's sort it out together.
I help men transform their lives for the better.
I believe in you. I believe in men. I believe that masculinity is a force for good. Especially when it is made conscious in an integrated man.
Men are not women who are malfunctioning. Men do NOT need to learn to relate to their feelings, or talk about them, the way women do.
They DO sometimes need to talk more than they are inclined to. They do sometimes need to get in touch with their feelings and learn to relate with the feminine in themselves. But not so that they become more feminine. Rather so that they can be true to themselves and not be submerged in the negative energies of porn, booze or distraction.
A man who is addicted to numbing himself out is ignoring his real emotional needs and wasting his power.
"I have time" you say.
Sure, you may have some time if you're a younger man. But you don't have all the time in the world.
As a trusted mentor to many men, I know that time is of the essence.
The sooner you get serious about facing your shadow self and unconscious patterns, the sooner you will create the life you really want and become the man you're meant to be.
A Strong Ally for Men
If you're having a tough time lately, I offer you my support. I understand the key stages of life men go through, and I can help you navigate a crisis with courage and clarity. I have broad experience assessing complex issues and can help you understand, master and outgrow your current issues.
In the first session, my aim will be to understand the full picture and help you get to the heart of the issue you're facing. Many men are surprised to find that I name the exact issues very directly, when no one else had been able to figure it out.
Most men feel a lot more relief and hope after the first session or two. As our work continues, I will help you discover find greater self-awareness, psychological maturity and a more inspired and conscious approach to your life journey.
I have helped many younger men who are having trouble launching into life, as well as older men want to fix their relationships, break their bad habits and feel happier.
A Refreshingly Practical Approach
Many things I say in therapy will probably surprise you. You may be surprised to hear someone finally naming the exact problem you have, in a straightforward but also compassionate way.
My approach does not waste time with vague, soft generalities that help no one. I will help you confront your issues by being direct with you -- while also offering you my full support.
Whatever life issue you are facing, it is likely that I am familiar with it and can offer a depth of practical insight that you will not often encounter in the typical therapy session. I have a dynamic, action-oriented style that is also joined with deep clinical perspective.
In my experience, men don't want to just talk and have their feelings validated. They want to understand the problem and do something about it. They want honest, challenging feedback that helps them solve problems and improve their lives. This is exactly what I offer.
Yes, you will feel heard and understood. But you will also receive guidance for building new habits and skills that upgrade your life in many ways.
Most men start with weekly sessions. Between sessions you'll experience new insights and impulses for improving your life. During our work together you are always free to text or email your thoughts, and I will reply with feedback or suggestions.
I always guide the first session with a few basic questions. I'll ask about where you are in your life and the problem you’re facing. You'll feel heard, respected and understood.
I’ll give you my best, so you can live your best life and become the man you’re meant to be. To get started, touch base with me today. Just send a quick text or call me at (732) 221-1954.
I have successfully helped men with -
Peter Pan Syndrome
Meaning and Spirituality
“For the hero, fear is a challenge and a task, because only boldness can deliver from fear. And if the risk is not taken, the meaning of life is somehow violated, and the whole future is condemned to hopeless staleness."