If you're struggling to see the truth about your relationship then I would be glad to help you. I will help you get realistic about your relationship and what to do about it. I have guided people through most every kind of relationship issue. Here are some common issues I help people with:​

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• How to approach dating more effectively

• How to deal with repeated conflict and misunderstandings

• What makes a couple compatible enough for the long term

• The major red flags that make a relationship fail

• How to improve intimacy, connection, and communication.

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I am able to accurately assess the full range issues that are arising between two people. That accuracy is vital when you are trying to figure out what has happened in your marriage.

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When you're in constant conflict or a crisis has erupted, you need clear, experienced guidance. You need someone who is fair-minded toward you both and can help you confront the core of the issue.

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What you don't need is a a therapist who will play softball with one or both of you and string you along session after session, letting you argue and fight without providing clear direction. You don't need a therapist who is afraid to tell you (or your partner) that your words or behavior are toxic and will destroy the marriage.

 

The truth is that I am fearless. I am not afraid to say the hard things that will make a difference. And I will do so in a compassionate, clear way that is refreshing. I have helped many couples heal their problems -- and yes, I have helped some to part ways when it makes sense. 

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Should I come in alone or with my partner?

Sometimes I counsel people individually, and later we have a few couples counseling sessions. It depends on your situation. Give me a call at (732) 221-1954 and let's discuss your situation.